Deposition of Rick Ross

 

Volume II

UNITED STATES DISTRICT COURT WESTERN DISTRICT OF WASHINGTON

JASON SCOTT,
ORIGINAL Plaintiff,
VS. No. C94-0079
RICK ROSS, a/k/a RICKEY ALLAN ROSS; MARK WORKMAN;
CHARLES SIMPSON; CLARK ROTROFF; CULT AWARENESS NETWORK,
a California Non-Profit Corporation;
and JOHN DOES 1 - JOHN DOE 20,
Defendants.
DEPOSITION OF  RICK A. ROSS
Phoenix, Arizona
October 28, 1994
VOLUME II
ATKINSON-BAKER, INC.
CERTIFIED SHORTHAND REPORTERS
330 North Brand Boulevard, Suite 250
Glendale, California 91203
(818)  551-7300
REPORTED BY: BONNIE SUMIDA
FILE NO.: 9416169

A. I'd like to preface whatever I say in this regard by making this statement. That I recognize how painful this is for Thysen Scott and how painful it is for his mother, and that when any young person is sexually abused, particularly a minor, which is a felony, that it is a very serious matter. And that it's also very painful for the person who was abused to recall or to deal with it. However, she expressed to me that she had seen them both in various states of disrobement; that she had found -

Q. Can you be more explicit than that, sir? Did she tell you that she found them naked together?

A. She told me that she felt that there was inappropriate behavior in regards to how they were dressed when they were together and under what circumstances.

Q. Well, did she tell you specifically that she found them naked together?

A. I do not remember her making that specific statement.

Q. Okay. Did she make other specific statements about, as you call it, various states of disrobement?

 A. Yes.

 Q. Be specific, sir.

 A. She talked about them wearing towels around the bedroom and playing some kind of game while they were wearing towels.

 Q. What game?

 A. I do not remember. She felt it was inappropriate. Also, Mr. Rethmeyer repeatedly insisted on sleeping over at Mrs. Tonkin's home, and he would sleep in the same bed with her 14-year-old son, and at the time he was in his I believe 30s and 13 an adult member. I believe some type of youth minister at the Life Tabernacle Church. Also, Mrs. Tonkin found rubbing oil for massages in the bedroom, and, basically, she repeatedly insisted that Dave Rethmeyer constant -- He would constantly hang around her son in what she felt was an obsessive, unusual, bizarre manner. He bought him clothes, more or less what you'd describe was a kind of classic pedophile profile, buying a lot of gifts for her son, constantly hanging around her son, insisting on sleeping in the same bed with her son. The door was closed a lot.

Q. Did Thysen Scott have his own room?

A. I believe so.

Q. He didn't have a room with Matt or any other boys?

A. I am not sure.

Q. Did you ever ask that question? A. Ms. Kathy Tonkin didn't volunteer that information.

Q. Did not? I'm sorry?

A. Did not volunteer that information that I remember. I remember her mentioning something about Matt wanted to have his own room or insisting that he have his own room. I don't know whether he did or not at that home. It was a fairly large home.

Q. Okay. Any other specifics that she gave that led her to have this concern of a homosexual relationship between her son and Mr. Rethmeyer?

A. Mr. Bowles, you're making a statement that I could not in any way, shape or form agree with.

Q.  Oh?

A. I don't believe in any way that Thysen Scott had a homosexual relationship with Dave Rethmeyer. It is very clear to me not only from Tonkin's statements but from Thysen Scott himself that the relationship was one of sexual abuse of a minor child.

Q. A homosexual abuse, sir?

A. It was between Dave Rethmeyer and Thysen Scott, and, therefore, it was a same sex situation of sexual abuse.

Q. So, therefore, it was homosexual, sir, yes or no?

A.  Yes.

Q. Thank you. Did you disclose to Mrs. Tonkin prior to deprogramming Scott that you had a homosexual background?

A. Mr. Bowles, I think that at this point you really have to ask yourself what the purpose is of this deposition, and for you to sit here and make nasty remarks -

Q. It wasn't a nasty remark.

A. -- which are accusatory remarks, nasty remarks that are completely irrelevant.

Q. I think it is very relevant.

A. I don't think that there is any relevance whatsoever.

Q. Are you refusing to answer the question?

A. I refuse to engage in any conversation that boils down to just simply harassment of me through a deposition.

Q. It is centrally relevant to this case in that we are addressing the homosexual relationship between Thysen and this man, allegedly.

A. I have previously -­

MR. RIVES:  Let me interject here. I, also, object to this. I think this is unwarranted. I don't see the relevance of this kind of inquiry that would lead to the discovery to admissible evidence. I think he's testified about information he received from a mother concerning conduct between the child and someone else that most people -- most parents would be very concerned about.

MR. BOWLES: Well, I think most parents would be very concerned about the background of a deprogrammer.. I think it's very relevant.

THE WITNESS: Let me at this point try to do a little clarification.

Q. (BY MR. BOWLES) Are you refusing to answer the question?

A. First of all -­

Q. Are you going to clarify, or are you just going to refuse to answer the question?

A. First of all, let me say I would like to retract -- I would like to define something. I said nasty because of the tone of Counsel's voice and the accusatory manner.

Q. Well, I disagree that my tone of voice was nasty.

A. Your delivery was very clear to me. I would like to say something right now that is very obvious to me is that it is absolutely irrelevant to discuss what a person's sexual background is any more than you would discuss, for example, if someone was involved in - I think this kind of reflects Mr. Bowles, the kind of bigoted slant to his remarks. For example, if one of Kathy Tonkin's daughters was sexually molested by an adult male, would you, then, feel that it was necessary in a deposition regarding someone, a man that she had shared that information with, to say, "Is it true, Mr. Smith" -- I give you a hypothetical name there -- "that you are a heterosexual? Is it true, Mr. Smith, that you might have a heterosexual background?" I mean this really kind of exposes the ridiculous nature of your questioning.

Q. Well, I am sorry if it makes you uncomfortable, Mr. Ross, but either you are going to answer the question or not. It has gone on -

 A. Well, it is irrelevant.

Q. Are you going to refuse to answer the question?

A. I refuse to answer the question.

Q. Thank you. Now, in your initial conversations with Kathy Tonkin, I think she testified that she had some dozen phone conversations with you prior to your coming to Seattle the first time. Does that figure seem accurate to you?

A. I do not remember.

Q. How many phone conversations do you recall having with her, best estimate?

A. I don't remember.

Q. In those phone conversations did you assist her by discussing the process of deprogramming, what it would entail?

A. I am sure, before I came up to Seattle, we discussed what was going to happen when I came to Seattle and what would go on.

Q. Did you discuss the need for security arrangements?

A. Mrs. Tonkin specifically must have felt that security was necessary, and decided to retain security.

Q. Did you discuss that with her? That was my question. Just say "yes" or "no". It's very simple.

A. It may have been discussed.

Q. Did you give your views on security in these deprogrammings to Kathy Tonkin over the telephone prior to your arrival in Seattle?

A. I don't know what you mean by "views."

Q. Your opinion?

A. I think Kathy Tonkin must have expressed a need for security. And I would have to go along with the parent and their express need for security.

Q. Okay. Did you give your opinion as to whether security was needed in phone conversations prior to your going up there?

A. That is a judgment call based on the decision of the parent as to whether or not security will be used.

Q. So if I hear what you are saying correctly, you did not give your opinion on security; is that right?

A. We may have discussed her need for.....

The end of the transcript for the purpose of relevants

 

REPORTER'S CERTIFICATE

I, BONNIE SUMIDA, Certified Court
Reporter, certify:
That the foregoing proceedings were taken before me at the time and place therein set forth, at which time the witness was put under oath by me;
That the testimony of the witness and all objections made at the time of the examination were recorded steno graphically by me and were thereafter transcribed;
That the foregoing is a true and correct transcript of my shorthand notes so taken. I further certify that I am not a relative or employee of any attorney or any of the parties nor financially interested in the action.
Dated this 31st day of October, 1994.
(Signed)
BONNIE SUMIDA

 


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